We can learn how to reduce conflict by studying the Lord's instructions to church members who were being violently persecuted in 1833: 1. Don't escalate. 2. Set appropriate boundaries, and communicate them clearly. 3. Defense is about ending violence, not exacting revenge. 4. Remember that the Lord is eager to forgive.
“Never to Give an Offense”
The Nephites were taught to defend themselves but "never to give an offense." We all know how difficult that is. Often, people take offense where none is intended. But we can often frame our words and actions in ways that are conducive to peace.
A Call from Arms
The Lamanites who were converted buried their weapons. This act of consecration is so remarkable that it appears many times in the Book of Mormon, including a final invitation from Mormon to us. President Nelson has also invited us to bury our weapons.
The Prince of Peace
Isaiah prophesied that Jesus would be the Prince of Peace. As His followers, we ought to also encourage peace by acting in harmony with His teachings and example.
“Ye Are Yet Carnal”
A good measure of your spiritual state is the way you treat other people. Paul saw weakness among church members in Corinth because of their envyings and strife. Mormon saw strength among his people because of their peaceable walk with the children of men
Gamaliel
Gamaliel urged the Sanhedrin to treat Peter and John with tolerance. If this work is of men, he said, it will fail on its own. If it's of God, you don't want to fight against it. This is a useful model for dealing with differences of opinion productively.
“I Will Give You Rest”
Sometimes the very things which seem on the surface to make our lives harder are actually lightening our burdens.
Peacemaking
Many of our efforts to make peace involve the people closest to us. We can work with confidence to calm anxieties and heal divisions within our families and among our friends. We can focus on the positive, love generously, and live mercifully.
He Will Teach Us of His Ways
The following passage appears in the books of both Micah and Isaiah: In the last days it shall come to pass, that the mountain of the house of the Lord shall be established in the top of the mountains, and it shall be exalted above the hills; and people shall flow unto it. And many nations shall come, and say, Come, and let... Continue Reading →
In Paradise
One of the thieves who was crucified with the Savior made a desperate final request: "Lord, remember me when thou comest into thy kingdom." In response, Jesus promised, "To day shalt thou be with me in paradise" (Luke 23:42-43). The Greek word paradeisos (παράδεισος) in that passage comes from two Persian roots: pairi- "around" and diz "to make,... Continue Reading →