After sharing the Sermon on the Mount at the temple in Bountiful, Jesus “cast his eyes round about on the multitude,” and then clarified a concept from the sermon that some of them were confused about. (See 3 Nephi 15:1.)
After teaching them a little longer, “he looked round about again on the multitude,” and, seeing that they were exhausted, announced that He was leaving and would return the next day. (See 3 Nephi 17:1.)
Immediately after making that announcement, “he cast his eyes round about again on the multitude, and beheld they were in tears, and did look steadfastly upon him as if they would ask him to tarry a little longer with them” (3 Nephi 17:5). He then announced that He would stay a little longer.
It’s important to be observant, particularly when you’re trying to communicate. What does their body language tell you about how they are receiving the message? Do they need more clarification? Do they need some time to process what you’ve said? Do they disagree with you? The fact that the Savior kept observing and responding is an important reminder for us: Don’t stop paying attention. If you think you are connecting with your listeners, cast your eyes round about again, and make sure.
Another advantage of taking another look is that you may notice specific people who need encouragement or support. Sister Bonnie S. Cordon asked:
Can we look round about again, as Jesus did, to make sure no one is missed and everyone is invited to come to know Him? …
Will you pray and ask Heavenly Father how you can support your parents as they continue to come unto Christ? They need you just as much as you need them.
Then look again at your siblings, friends, and neighbors. Who will you bring to Christ?
“Come unto Christ and Don’t Come Alone,” General Conference, October 2021
Today, I will pay closer attention to people’s reactions as we talk, and I will strive to respond appropriately. I will strive to understand where others are coming from and how I can better support and serve them.
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