God has distributed resources unevenly on purpose: so that we learn to share with one another. His purpose is for the poor to be "exalted, in that the rich are made low." But Elder Uchtdorf has pointed out that giving blesses both the giver and the receiver, leading both toward exaltation.
“Let Your Families Be Small”
God instructed church members in Kirtland, Ohio to keep their families small "as pertaining to those who do not belong to your families." He was reminding them that they didn't have unlimited resources. We can love all of God's children and also be good financial stewards, realistic about what we can reasonably give.
Caring for the Poor and the Needy: Three Principles from God’s Law
Doctrine and Covenants 42 and 44 teach three principles to help us care for the poor and needy: 1. When you have more than enough, share. 2. A gift is a gift. Once given, it is no longer yours. 3. Do something now; don't wait for the perfect organization before giving.
“He Hath Dispersed”
God will never run out of blessings, so why do we cling to the blessings we have already received? There comes a point when we are struggling to retain things we can't keep, to the detriment of people who need those things right now.
Giving Cheerfully
When we give or serve grudgingly, we miss out on the enjoyment that is inherent in these activities. The faster we can overcome our initial resistance, the sooner we can experience the joy and growth that come from giving cheerfully!
Charity
Charity means recognizing things that are valuable and treating them accordingly. Jesus gave His life for us because He had charity for us: He recognized our value. We must emulate Him in that way to receive the blessings He has prepared for us.
Thinketh No Evil
People who have charity do not think evil of others. They don't dwell on others' faults but rather find joy in recognizing other people's positive attributes and actions.
To Answer for Himself
The Roman governor Festus understood that people have a right to respond to accusations. Joseph Smith promised his associates that he would not believe criticisms without hearing their side. People who have charity give others the benefit of the doubt.
Doing Good
Peter told the Roman centurion Cornelius that Jesus "went about doing good." As important as it is to avoid mistakes and to solve problems, it can be useful to simply take advantage of our many opportunities to do good.
By the Hand
Peter took the lame beggar by the hand and lifted him up as he healed him. Alma did something similar for Zeezrom. We may have opportunities to serve people from a distance, but there is really no substitute for serving other people directly.